I recently went through a divorce and have tried to maintain the same lifestyle for my children. Now I have nothing left. I'm not blaming anyone but myself, but I'm in a position now that is pulling me under. I feel completely hopeless and like I am absolutley no good to my children. I have ruined my credit...which wasn't great to start with...and my ex is using all of this against me. My oldest is starting college and I have no way to help him. His father is financially secure and pits the kids against me. I just need help to get back on my feet. I can't even buy groceries at this point and have completely given up all hope of being able to dig myself out of hole I have created. I just need to get to ground zero...I'm not looking for a "gift" to zero everything out. I just need to be able to catch up and make myself become responsible. If you can help that would be wonderful.
